Ever wonder if you're giving your offspring the behind-the-scenes advice they need to face some of life's challenges? A resilient child is a prepared child: Start today with some of these sensible messages to make sure your child grows up with bounce-back-ability. 1. Failure is okay 2. The important thing is to try 3. The hardest part is simply getting started... 4. Actions speak louder than words 5. And perception is a funny old thing... 6. But if you want it, you MUST go and get it 7. And always be your own hero 8. Perseverance is key 9. Embrace what makes you different  10. And through it all, be you.