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  • Why marriage is twice as stressful as raising children

    Why marriage is twice as stressful as raising children

    Is marriage harder than parenthood? Raising kids is not easy. I already feel qualified to say that, despite only having one. It’s a wonderful chaotic thing that, for me anyway, brings more than enough happiness to make the stress worthwhile. But it’s still bloody stressful at times. As a single parent, however, I’m possibly not […]

    2 years ago

  • Can we stop frightening new parents about the next stages please?

    Can we stop frightening new parents about the next stages please?

    Please don’t warn us, we’re well aware. There’s a TikTok trend doing the rounds of the cutest videos of these adorable newborns, doing nothing more than being exactly that. The captions always read “when they tell you the newborn phase is the hardest”. The music then changes from a sweet lullaby to some heavy metal […]

    2 years ago

  • I don’t like playing with my son, but Lego is the one exception

    I don’t like playing with my son, but Lego is the one exception

    Exclusive: Ryan ‘Brickman’ McNaught chats to HerFamily Making a statement like ‘I don’t like playing with my child’ is often a controversial one. I’ve made the admission before and discovered it’s something many parents struggle with, whether they’re happy to admit it or not. Last week, one of my favourite online creators KC Davis caused […]

    2 years ago

  • Mam-to-Mam: We need to talk about mum shaming

    Mam-to-Mam: We need to talk about mum shaming

    ‘Should he be eating that?’ Several things surprised me about becoming a parent. The obvious shocks were how bloody hard it is and the fact that they pick up a new bug every fortnight as toddlers. But nobody warns you that you may experience bullying or online trolling, purely because you chose to procreate. Using […]

    2 years ago

  • Should 5-year-olds stay up until 9pm? An expert’s view on bedtimes

    Should 5-year-olds stay up until 9pm? An expert’s view on bedtimes

    “If a child is taking more than 30 minutes to fall asleep, consider whether the bedtime is unrealistically early.” Getting your child to sleep can be a challenge at any time, but we all know how important the right amount of sleep is when it comes to their mood… and your sanity! According to sleep […]

    2 years ago

  • Mam to mam: Why are we so hard on ourselves as parents?

    Mam to mam: Why are we so hard on ourselves as parents?

    “We made these tiny humans our priority without missing a beat” How many times have you comforted a fellow parent at their wits’ end? Probably as often as you’ve told someone that their gorgeous child was a credit to them. Weekly, if not daily, I heap praise on to my friends and feel pride and […]

    2 years ago

  • 5 things nobody told me about potty training

    5 things nobody told me about potty training

    Let’s talk about poo, shall we? So I recently toilet-trained my three-year-old. Actually, I’m not sure if I should be using the past tense here, as the process is ongoing. He’s playing a blinder, all things considered, but I wish someone had told me these titbits before we began. 1. No nappies is WAY more […]

    2 years ago

  • Here’s why you need to change your paddling pool water EVERY day

    Here’s why you need to change your paddling pool water EVERY day

    We’re experiencing a second summer and the paddling pool has come out of retirement. Paddling pools, no matter how big or small, are an absolute delight on a sunny day. But whether it’s a petite place to paddle your feet to cool yourself off, or a massive tank you can do laps in, you’ve got […]

    3 years ago

  • 8 handy things to know before going to Center Parcs

    8 handy things to know before going to Center Parcs

    Some thoughts from a Center Parcs first-timer Heading to Longford Forest this year? I’m just back from four nights at Center Parcs and, as a first-timer, I had some questions before the trip. Are swimming hats required in the so-called Subtropical Paradise? (They’re not.) Should I get a trailer or a bike seat for my kid? […]

    3 years ago

  • “I don’t hide my periods from my son and here’s why”

    “I don’t hide my periods from my son and here’s why”

    “My motto is, when it comes to periods, let it flow” We’ve gotten to that wonderful stage in my house where we’re naming body parts. Each morning in bed, my son clutches my ears and nose, working his way through the various parts of my head, naming them aloud and waiting for praise after each […]

    3 years ago

  • Winnie the Pooh is coming to Bord Gáis and we got a sneak peek

    Winnie the Pooh is coming to Bord Gáis and we got a sneak peek

    All the magic of the Hundred Acre Wood Disney’s iconic Winnie the Pooh is coming to Dublin, and he’s bringing all his pals. A fresh stage adaption of AA Milne’s beloved book opens at Bord Gáis Energy Theatre this July and sees Pooh, Tigger, Piglet, Eeyore and Christopher Robin come to life in a beautifully […]

    3 years ago

  • Laura Drury: The fertility epiphany that finally made it happen

    Laura Drury: The fertility epiphany that finally made it happen

    The assumption that the fertility path is a straight line is misleading women everywhere, according to HerFamily contributor Laura Drury “So you guys aren’t planning on kids then?” …I was very nonchalantly asked this question by one of my friend’s partners at a BBQ, just over a year into being married. Yes, I had been […]

    3 years ago

  • Musings: They don’t warn you how emotional your kids’ birthdays are

    Musings: They don’t warn you how emotional your kids’ birthdays are

    I spent most of the day in tears I’ve never been a big birthday person. It seems a funny thing to celebrate… ‘Congratulations on staying alive for another year! Here’s your parade…’ That is until I had a baby. Now the words ‘birth day’ carry much more weight. So much so that I was, emotionally, […]

    3 years ago

  • “To all my friends with babies, I apologise.”

    “To all my friends with babies, I apologise.”

    “I can’t believe I showed up to meet your newborn without food, and I’ll never refer to my dog as my fur baby again.” We do all sorts to prepare ourselves for becoming parents. For me, there was no stone unturned, no book unread and no episode of One Born unwatched. But it’s often said […]

    3 years ago

  • How much pocket money should Irish children get nowadays?

    How much pocket money should Irish children get nowadays?

    What’s the going rate, these days? I didn’t get pocket money, growing up and I was always so jealous of those who did. Not just because they had cash to buy things, but because I loved the idea of being in charge of my own money. Life is expensive and kids seem to have it […]

    3 years ago

  • Does Santa wrap presents? Let’s settle this for once and for all

    Does Santa wrap presents? Let’s settle this for once and for all

    Forget 5 pm closing times and panto rows, this is the real Christmas scandal Many a heated discussion has broken out online in recent days over whether Santa wraps presents each Christmas. What he does in your house will more than likely come down to what happened in your parents’ houses when you were on […]

    3 years ago

  • How much should I be paying my babysitter?

    How much should I be paying my babysitter?

    A good babysitter is worth their weight in gold, but what is the going rate these days? If you’ve managed to find a reliable person with their head screwed on, who you trust to take good care of your child, can we please also have their number? That aside, how much should we be paying […]

    3 years ago

  • Other parents think my daughter is a mean girl, but I disagree

    Other parents think my daughter is a mean girl, but I disagree

    “Why should she have to play with someone she doesn’t want to play with?” Tween drama can get seriously messy and, for parents, it can be hard to advise children through it. One mother explained this week, that her daughter has gained a bad reputation because she has no interest in being friends with one […]

    4 years ago

  • Tweakments: Everyone’s getting Belotero Revive, but what is it?

    Tweakments: Everyone’s getting Belotero Revive, but what is it?

    ‘Moisture is transported directly to the layers that need it’ At this stage in our skincare journeys, I probably don’t need to tell you about the benefits of Hyaluronic. But for those not in the know, it’s a substance that helps transport and maintain moisture in the skin, making it function like a well-oiled machine. […]

    4 years ago

  • More money for childcare workers as new pay deal approved

    More money for childcare workers as new pay deal approved

    A welcome move for many The Government has today approved a pay agreement which will provide pay increases for childcare workers and early learning educators. A new minimum hourly rate of €13-an-hour for early years educators will now apply, and €17.25-an-hour for graduate managers. The move will see wages increase for an estimated 73% of […]

    4 years ago

  • Olivia Newton-John has sadly died, aged 73

    Olivia Newton-John has sadly died, aged 73

    A icon of the film and music industries Sad news this evening as the iconic actress and singer Olivia Newton-John has sadly died, aged 73. The Grease star spoke openly about her struggles with breast cancer, having first been diagnosed 30 years ago. TMZ have reported that she passed away peacefully at home from metastatic […]

    4 years ago

  • DIY Healthcare: At-home fertility testing launches in Ireland tomorrow

    DIY Healthcare: At-home fertility testing launches in Ireland tomorrow

    Is at-home testing the future of fertility care? Femtech startup, Hertility launches in Ireland on Thursday 21st July, marking another seismic shift into at-home healthcare. Testing our sexual health and having our teeth straightened via the post is nothing new, and the last two years made online GP appointments and even virtual physiotherapy the norm. […]

    4 years ago

  • 5-year-old boy shoots and kills his 8-year-old brother

    5-year-old boy shoots and kills his 8-year-old brother

    More senseless tragedy An 8-year-old boy has died after his 5-year-old brother shot him, in Jefferson County, Arkansas this week it’s been reported. The boys’ mother was asleep at the time of the incident and it’s believed that there were at least four other children in the house. The local sheriff issued a media statement […]

    4 years ago

  • “I have properly lost it after reading this on Mumsnet”

    “I have properly lost it after reading this on Mumsnet”

    To say I would have died… Look, we’re all a little nosy. Who amongst us would be happy to reveal the contents of our search history? One woman got caught rotten during a little nosy internet search in work, and I’ve been dying of cringe since I read about it. I have properly lost it […]

    4 years ago

  • Family wanted for The Green Irish Road Trip with Clayton Hotels

    Family wanted for The Green Irish Road Trip with Clayton Hotels

    Brought to you by Clayton Hotels  in association with Kia  Are you and your family ready for adventure? This summer, Clayton Hotels are searching for one lucky family to go on a sustainable Irish adventure, to show that we can have holidays filled with fun, while limiting our impact on the environment. They’re looking for a […]

    4 years ago

  • The most natural thing in the world? You’ve got to be f***ing kidding me

    The most natural thing in the world? You’ve got to be f***ing kidding me

    Having a baby is pretty messed up… It’s not news that procreation and birth are incredible. Miraculous, even. But I think we say those words without really sitting with the reality of the thing. We literally create miniature versions of ourselves, from bits of ourselves. Like, what?! I don’t understand why we’re all walking around […]

    4 years ago

  • Premature baby thrown away by hospital who mistook body for soiled bed linen

    Premature baby thrown away by hospital who mistook body for soiled bed linen

    “It’s like she died all over again” Everleigh Victoria McCarthy sadly died 12 days after being born three months early, at Brigham and Women’s Hospital in Boston. Her devastated parents are now suing the hospital, as it appears a staff member may have accidently disposed of Everleigh’s remains, after mistaking them for discarded bed linen. […]

    4 years ago

  • Buckingham Palace introduces “revised policies” after Meghan bullying investigation

    Buckingham Palace introduces “revised policies” after Meghan bullying investigation

    They have refused to make details of the changes or the findings public Buckingham Palace came under pressure recently for refusing to release any details about the investigation into bullying allegations made against the Duchess of Sussex, Meghan Markle. A “private investigation” was confirmed to have taken place into complaints that Meghan bullied members of […]

    4 years ago

  • Brave, breastfeeding mother saves pet goose from bald eagle

    Brave, breastfeeding mother saves pet goose from bald eagle

    The definition of ‘if you want something done, ask a busy person’ Nothing to see here, just a badass breastfeeding mother rescuing her pet goose from a bald eagle… How’s your day going? The brave mother-of-three (four if you count the goose?) has been hailed a hero after a TikTok video of her rescuing her […]

    4 years ago

  • “My seven-year-old son told me he’s gay”

    “My seven-year-old son told me he’s gay”

    “I hope you know I’m gay” According to a recent report by Irish LGBTQI+ youth service BeLonGTo, the average age that someone realises they’re gay is 12. Coming out often happens later again of course, particularly for gay women or people who are trans, and usually happens in stages with the person opening up about […]

    4 years ago

  • Great news for Irish parents as bouncy castle operators secure insurance once again

    Great news for Irish parents as bouncy castle operators secure insurance once again

    “The long, hard and sometimes frustrating journey” Last summer, we reported that parents were being advised to hire bouncy castles “at their own risk”, because Irish operators couldn’t secure public liability insurance. However, good news for businesses and parents alike was announced today, as Independent.ie reports that bouncy castle operators have secured insurance as part […]

    4 years ago

  • 6 Incredible West Cork food experiences not to be missed

    6 Incredible West Cork food experiences not to be missed

    Brought to you by DiscoverIreland West Cork is a feast for all the senses. West Cork is often heralded the culinary capital of Ireland, and it’s easy to see why. This summer, explore all the amazing food the rebel county has to offer with these immersive and appetising experiences. Feast at all the incredible food on […]

    4 years ago

  • Should I let my children watch Love Island?

    Should I let my children watch Love Island?

    “It’s about getting into a conversation and communicating with our youngsters” My son is one, so I’m pretty sure he’ll be in bed, but the current chat in my Whatsapp groups has turned to whether or not tweens and teens should be allowed to watch Love Island. If you’re not familiar with the reality show […]

    4 years ago

  • Mother-in-law overstepping the mark? Here’s how to handle her

    Mother-in-law overstepping the mark? Here’s how to handle her

    It’s a relationship that’s often wonderful, but often complicated Whether you’re in the newborn phase, or four kids deep, a grandparent overstepping the mark can be a very stressful thing. If you’re lucky enough to have help from parents on either side, you’re probably very grateful for it. But what if that help always comes […]

    4 years ago

  • Women are choosing to give birth with no medical support

    Women are choosing to give birth with no medical support

    “I have never been happier, more proud, more joyful, more fulfilled” New research would have us believe that homebirth’s are every bit as safe as labouring at a hospital, but what if you didn’t even have a medical professional present? Freebirthing is when a pregnant person intentionally gives birth to a baby without a midwife […]

    4 years ago

  • Teen convicted after Howth Junction incident won’t go to jail

    Teen convicted after Howth Junction incident won’t go to jail

    The 17-year-old has been released on probation A youth involved in the antisocial behaviour which led to a teenage girl being knocked under a train last year, has been spared a custodial sentence. CCTV footage of the incident shocked viewers who watched the girl fall into the gap between a Dart and the platform at […]

    4 years ago

  • Teachers in Ireland forced to pretend to be Catholic to get a job

    Teachers in Ireland forced to pretend to be Catholic to get a job

    Welcome to Ireland, where teachers have to hide their religious beliefs to get a job The days of having to Christen your child to make sure they got a school place might be gone, but a cross-border study carried out by Dr Catherine Stapleton of Mary Immaculate College and Dr James Nelson of Queen’s University […]

    4 years ago

  • Concern is growing over the quality of Irish teaching in schools

    Concern is growing over the quality of Irish teaching in schools

    We’d love to hear your thoughts on this Concern is growing over “the quality of Irish teaching in schools”, according to recent chief inspector’s report published by the Department of Education. The report says that the Irish language suffered disproportionately because of the impact of Covid on schooling, but that in general children are not […]

    4 years ago

  • Not everyone breastfed before formula was invented, you know

    Not everyone breastfed before formula was invented, you know

    It’s really ok if you can’t, or don’t The formula shortage in the US has brought out the uncharitable side in some, as these things tend to. The narrative of “just breastfeed” is still being bandied about as is the question, “what do you think people did before formula was invented?” Historian Carla Cevasco, Ph.D. […]

    4 years ago

  • “Should I give my 18-year-old a deadline to move out?”

    “Should I give my 18-year-old a deadline to move out?”

    “I don’t want to put my happiness and financial well-being on hold indefinitely” Kids rarely move out as young as 18, these days but in this particular family, things are changing and everyone is happy to go their own way. However, it’s not happening any time soon which is causing some issues, as this mother […]

    4 years ago

  • Mothers told “just breastfeed” amid formula shortages in the US

    Mothers told “just breastfeed” amid formula shortages in the US

    Hold my drink. With troubling baby formula shortages affecting the supply of critical infant nutrition in America, some are using the crisis to shame mothers for not breastfeeding. I don’t know if this is a secret but mothers actually produce breast milk that is tailor-made for their infant. ? It’s also free ? — Beatrice […]

    4 years ago

  • “It’s not your fault”: Researchers now understand why SIDS occurs

    “It’s not your fault”: Researchers now understand why SIDS occurs

    Until now, the cause of SIDS has remained largely unknown Sudden infant death syndrome (SIDS) accounts for about 37% of sudden unexpected infant deaths a year in the U.S. This week, researchers from The Children’s Hospital Westmead in Sydney have released a study that confirms for the first time exactly how these tragic deaths occur. […]

    4 years ago

  • Mental Health Week: Fathers get postnatal depression too

    Mental Health Week: Fathers get postnatal depression too

    “I became afraid that I wasn’t fit to be a father” Jack Allen’s first experience of depression happened when he was 19, after his father left home following an affair. “I didn’t even know what I was experiencing was depression. I didn’t deal with any of those feelings for another 10 years,” he recalls. Over […]

    4 years ago

  • Russian pre-school children are dressed as tanks and soldiers for Victory Day

    Russian pre-school children are dressed as tanks and soldiers for Victory Day

    Victory Day is a major public holiday in Russia This is hard to watch. Our hearts and minds have raced for the children of Ukraine in these last tumultuous months, but it’s not lost on us either how this war must be affecting the children of Russia. What messages are being sent to them? And […]

    4 years ago

  • Our favourite baby names beginning with A

    Our favourite baby names beginning with A

    They’ll always be first at roll call A is a strong initial – it makes for a great monogram. And some of the prettiest and strongest names start with A – here’s a small selection of our forever faves: Ava Amelia Alexander Abigail Aria Adam Anna Alice Autumn August Alex Atlas Abel Adalyn Ace Arlo […]

    4 years ago

  • New evidence has been found against Madeleine McCann prime suspect

    New evidence has been found against Madeleine McCann prime suspect

    German investigators say they have found new evidence against the prime suspect in the disappearance of Madeleine McCann Prosecutor Hans Christian Wolters told German TV channel CMTV: “The investigation is still going on and I think we found some new facts, some new evidence — not forensic evidence, but evidence.” Christian Brueckner was declared a […]

    4 years ago